How We Influence Kids will Help Determine How They Will Be!
From a Yahoo Group:
I don't want my to boys to grow up to be macho types, instead I much
for them to be gentle, educated men supportive of a strong
wife. I have not
broached the subject of letting them try girl's
clothes or hairstyles because
I know my wife would disapprove.
However, I found one activity this
summer which I believe will be
excellent for teaching them domestic skills as
well as better
interaction and respect for girls. My wife had noticed that
really enjoyed helping her in the kitchen. Fortunately, a new
opened locally, a 'young chef's school', and so I suggested that
enroll them in a Summer camp. My wife was very enthusiastic about
and so were the kids. The camp was four hours a day for one
They learned a lot of recipes and new cooking skills. The gender
was about 65% girls/35% boys, just enough boys for them to
comfortable, but yet in a predominantly feminine environment.
think it was a very positive experience for them, and will further
domestication. Who knows? Maybe one of them will some day
attend a Culinary
academy and become a famous chef...
I agree totally. Its important to have your sons play a domestic role
well. Cooking can be fun and entertaining. Just think about it,
have parties the majority of them are in the kitchen. It
seems you have two
great kids who will do well.
I wished I had spent more time with my mom learning how to cook and
My problem was being the youngest child with two older
sisters and a brother
from which I would get teased. One of my worst
fears was being embarrassed so
it kept me from doing some things I
really wanted. I am glad you found this
class and it may be a good environment
the boys to learn some skills
and interact with girls in a positive
It is important
for males to respect women and see the influence they
have on our society. I
remember my mom and dad having a discussion on
the equality of men and women
back in the mid 70's. It was in a
playful manner and after noticing me paying
attention my mom asked me
if I thought men and women were equal. I replied
yes. You can debate
all you want about comparing skills or physical strength
and the like
but what it all comes down to is they both have an equal
role in this world. I want it to be one that complements the
And If you Influence a Girl to be Strong...She Becomes Strong!!!
Influence Boys to Be Pretty...You Get Pretty Boys!!!
Feminized Men Make the Best Husbands! Women that Take Control of their Relationships with Men and Boys, and Encourage Male Femininity are the Pioneers of the Future!